Times like this is when you find out who your friends really are.
As one grows older you will find yourself thinking this way. Some folks drive you it.
Get rid of the ones who want to use you through their hard times and then dump you, then only need you again during their hard times again.
You really find out where you stand with the people that should be their for you especially through difficult times.
These people are what we called our family and dear and true friends.