Living in this World , We have to face all situations , some of your own making and some of others as a well wisher and as a friend. Your real ability lies in keeping calm under all circumstances irrespective of the situation. Violent mind like a muddled water suffers from weakened clarity and decision making ability. However stormy the situation your friend is facing , you should have the ability to provide serenity and calmness to the surroundings. This calmness and peace lent by you becomes contagious and rather than aggravating the storm , it douses the fire and not spark it.